Welcome to David’s blog, which serves as a record of our journey from November 2009 to July 2010.
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“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”
This last weekend David experienced sudden blurred vision. On Monday he was referred to the emergency eye clinic, then on to Middlemore, then Auckland hospital and after many tests, the doctors have found the cause: Dave has acute lymphoblastic leukemia. He has started chemotherapy.
So we find ourselves facing a very strong head wind of trouble. But we take heart. God is with us :-).
Thank you to all those are praying and giving us practical help.
Please pray for healing. Please pray for peace and courage for Tarnya (me) and our 8 children, for Dave’s parents Glenise and Jim, and David’s sister Vicki and her family.
Please pray for our church family, especially for the leadership.
I will use this blog, impersonal though it is, to write updates and to share our journey.
Update #1 (April 2010)
Since November Dave has had chemotherapy, gone into remission, and a 10/10 matching donor has been found on the international registry. Dave was scheduled for a bone marrow transplant in late April 2010, however a bone marrow biopsy showed that he was no longer in remission so he is undergoing further chemotherapy to try and achieve a second remission. The bone marrow transplant has been postponed.
Update #2 (May 2010)
The further chemotherapy did not achieve the desired second remission, and the results of a bone marrow biopsy done afterwards made it clear that a transplant was not an option. The consultant thought that even if a bone marrow transplant had happened earlier in the first remission Dave would have relapsed anyway. Dave is taking a chemo drug to control the leukemia and this will give him extra precious months.
Update July 2010
David wrote 2 books in those last months. I hope to have them published soon (links coming…)
David and I choose not to allow leukemia to so cloud our lives that we did not receive each day as a blessing to be shared. Psalm 90:12. That is my prayer for you, that in all circumstances you can still find joy.
Yesterday we laid our hand print mosaics at Dave’s headstone. Mine is the multicoloured one. Vicki and Philip brought coke to share (Dave’s favourite drink).
After Dave died, I received a lovely letter from another widow. She wrote that at first the horribleness of the illness and the suffering had dominated her memories but in time the happy memories came back come back. They do 🙂
I am very grateful to have walked life’s path with Dave for almost 18 years.
In the word of Dave “Don’t wait for cancer to change your perspective. Live fully today.
Taste and see that the Lord is good. I have been so loved and blessed by friends and family who have helped me this last year. Thank you.
May God richly bless you!
Marantha: Come Lord Jesus!
“Finding Financial Freedom” has a website : http://www.familyis.org/blogs/getoutofdebtchristian/. Several chapters are available online for free.
Heaven is Not My Home www.heavenisnotmyhome.com/ Several chapters are available online for free.
You can also purchase this book through lulu.com
There is also a video index, scroll down a little on the page .
A big thanks to Mandeno Moments
A copy of Jefferson Vann’s message linked above.
The service was a wonderful tribute to Dave. Thank you to all.
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David came home last night. I prepared the front bedroom: it has some flowers, a chair and the memorial book. Anyone who visits today can go to this quiet room and see Dave, perhaps write a few words, pray, think. If you don’t feel comfortable doing this, you are most welcome just to visit us in the lounge area and kitchen areas of the house.
Thank you to all those who send me words of comfort and who pray for us. You pour grace into our lives.
“Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows.”
This road has been walked by many before me. Elisabeth Elliot was widowed twice. Her books are a great comfort:
The Path of loneliness: Finding Your Way through the Wilderness to God and
A Path through Suffering: Discovering the Relationship between God’s Mercy and our Pain.
John 11:25 “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will live, even though he dies”
His funeral service will be 10:30am Saturday 10th July at;
Manurewa Baptist Church, 9 Lupton Road, Manurewa 2102, New Zealand ( see map below)
Everyone welcome. Please bring food to share after the service. Please note there are very limited facilities available for warming food.
Dave’s body will come home to us on Thursday and Friday (8th and 9th July). We would like to open our home to friends and loved ones to visit briefly anytime between 10-12noon and 2-6pm.
Our postal address: PO Box 202162 Southgate Takanini 2246